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Go Barefoot

Chris Marlow —  October 27, 2011 — 2 Comments
I wish Barefoot Churchwas written before I planted my first church.  It would have saved me a lot of pain and mistakes.  This is a book filled with practical action-steps that will help the church embrace the beauty of Sunday and prepare for living out the mission, to love God and love our neighbor; locally and globally.

I would encourage pastors to share this book with their board members, staff members and key church leaders. Take time to process what is at stake here.  You will get a behind-the-scenes snapshot of  what a living church can be like if we are willing to take risks, move away from the “known” and see how we can truly love our broken world.

Brandon has penned a missional guide…he leads us down a practical pathway that will help us discover some tangible ways that will cause our churches to be more effective.

Though I must warn you, if you’re looking for something easy, or a silver bullet to church growth, you may be disappointed.  While the book is practical and helpful, it’s also challenges us to do the “hard” work that is necessary to love people and to see God do amazing works through the local church.

Get the book; read it, pray over it, get together with some other friends, leaders, pastors and discuss the content and it’s potential Kingdom ramifications.  Let it challenge you, inspire you, and make you angry.

Agree with it, disagree with it…allow it to help shape you and your church into a deeper missional community, that is striving to live out the principles of God’s Kingdom together.

Let’s go barefoot today…

My Preaching Voice

Chris Marlow —  December 30, 2008 — 1 Comment

Preaching can be very humbling. I spoke to youth a lot when I was a young minister. Then I went to the corporate world for five years. After that five year stint we planted a church. I remember the awful feeling of speaking every Sunday. It seemed impossible to plant a church, run a family, work a second job and prepare to speak every Sunday. I was not ready for that commitment. 

A lot of times churches are planted with Christians who come from great churches with great communicators. Basically they (Christians) expect great speaking. For many church planters they may be used to speaking because they where on staff at a church when they launched, and they spoke on a consistent basis. But many times the new church planter is not prepared to speak week-to-week.

For me I had not spoken for years…At times it was rough. Truthfully I think I finally found my speaking voice at Vista. I found what “worked” for me. I’m a story-teller, motivator, and passion is essential in my speaking. I can’t speak with notes and I don’t like speaking for a long time. 35-40 minutes is tops. (stop laughing-that is not that long)

Here is my rhythm:

1. 6-8 hours of study on the topic. (I’m a verse by verse guy, so that helps) 
2. Write out a full manuscript.
3. Practice speaking from manuscript.
4. Memorize all key scriptures.
5. From manuscript create a simple one-page outline.
6. Practice one more time from outline with no notes-free flow. 
7. Speak. (no notes-I do have an outline with me) 

Tim Keller is one of my favorite communicators. I just read Jonathan‘s post on Keller’s preaching philosophy. Keller stated that it takes at least 200 sermons to become a good communicator. That is 4 years of speaking every Sunday. YIKES! 

“I don’t believe you should spend a lot of time preparing your sermon, when you’re a younger minister. I think because we are so desperately want our sermon to be good, that when you’re younger you spend way too much time preparing. And, you know, its scary to say this to the younger ministers… you’re not going to be much better by putting in twenty hours on that sermon – the only way you’re going to be a better preacher is if you preach often. For the first 200 sermons, not matter what you do, your first 200 sermons are going to be terrible. (laughter from the crowd). And, if you put in… fifteen or twenty hours in the sermon you probably won’t preach that many sermons because you won’t last in ministry, because your people will feel neglected.” Tim Keller

So if you’re a communicator do yourself a favor: relax. Enjoy the process and give yourself some grace. Yes, there will always be those Christians who will not be patient and allow you time and space to learn and grow-therefore they will leave your church so they can get “fed” by the seasoned communicator. (It’s not easy sitting through bad sermons, not trying to be critical) That’s OK, the important thing is for the communicator to find their voice so they can communicate effectively over the long-haul.

Help Me Be Angry

Chris Marlow —  December 29, 2008 — 5 Comments

There is no doubt that pain exist on so many levels and it’s very hard to comprehend the depth of evil. Story after story of war, poverty, death and heartache. This past week I was able to celebrate Christmas with family and friends. Nice warm home, gifts, and plenty of food. It was fun…And I thank God that I’m blessed. 

However, I hate that so many don’t have what I have. My prayer this morning was for anger. I don’t care what you call it, holy anger, righteous anger or holy discontent. I just want my heart to beat in the same manner of Jesus.

And I think Jesus is angry over the pain and suffering in our world. And I know he wants His followers to have the same anger. We can’t be content with being blessed, we must become a blessing. 

We have “good news” to share. We can offer hope, we can show love, we can share the story of Jesus to our world.

I hope and pray that 2009 we all become more connected to the gospel and how the gospel is displayed in our day-to-day lives. Let us become more generous with our love, time and resources.

Talk Is Cheap

Chris Marlow —  December 10, 2008 — 4 Comments

I became a Christ-follower when I was 16. I was tricked into going to some church camp by my best friend in High School. Needless to say he told me some girls from his church were also going.  I was thinking camping, beer, tents and other things that wild teenagers do or desire to do. (see picture and go ahead and laugh)

Laugh, do it!!!

Laugh, do it!!!

But God had other plans. I went to church for the first time in my life, (like 12 times that week-sigh) and I became a Christ-follower when the preacher called me out of the crowd and told me some stuff that nobody else in that room knew. That night I also was called into the ministry (which is confusing because we are all called into the ministry).

I saw the Spirit and the power of God and the love of Jesus the very first moment I became a Christian. It’s what I know, it’s who I am and it’s what I want to be-one who walks in the Spirit and see’s the Spirit using my life to demonstrate the Kingdom of God and His power.  I read this scripture this morning and I could not help but ask, “how much do I talk and I much do I act?” As I read 1st Corinthians I could not help but feel this desire to see God at work and the demonstration of the Spirit and His power.

With God’s help we could wipe-out extreme poverty in my lifetime. With God’s help we could plant Gospel-Centered Church that see city transformation. With God’s help we could live like Acts 2 and become Acts 29…30…etc.

Talk is useless and action is vital. People like me who are filled with vision and passion can still become “talkers” as opposed to actually living out the “way” of Jesus and serving my generation and seeing the Spirit’s power.

My prayer for the Simply Missional community is simple=lets act on what we believe.

I’ve talked about this before but I think it’s a subject I would like to discuss a bit more. I love spending time with leaders. I don’t have what it takes to lead a multi-million dollar organization yet. So I need to surround myself with leaders who will push me. 

My wife attended many meetings with me in NC, some of those meeting got heated as we discussed philosophy, vision and calling. What happens when two leaders disagree? You debate and argue because it’s that tension that causes greater clarity. But my poor wife was stressed as she was not used to seeing people (friends) go at it for a lack of better words. 

Weak leaders want to control situations and they desire everyone to do what they want and when they want. They desire followers to help them accomplish their vision. 

Don’t get me wrong-some people challenge the process in all the wrong ways. They create conflict and lack clarity.  These types of people can do much damage to the health of the leader and organization as they continue to drain the energy of the leader. 

Great leaders want to challenge the process, they want people to disagree. They seek key info and important people to help them become better at what they do. If the leader lacks confidence he will surround himself with followers who will do what they are told to do. 

But what happens when leaders genuinely disagree with each other? 

1. Calling: You better know you’re called. If your called and you’re willing to die for a cause, then people will respect you even if they disagree with you!
2. Conviction: It takes guts to make hard decisions. When you have a conviction you can withstand times of uncertainty and disagreements. 
3. Team: You better have a team around you who can confirm your calling and conviction.
4. Admit Mistakes: Humility is such a key. When you screw-up admit it.
5. Argue with respect: Love each other and pray for one-another. If your goal is to just be “right” then you will be stuck in a place of non-growth.
6. Take the advice and connect it with other advice. Look for patterns that could emerge to help you make good decisions.
7. Affirm: When debating, disagreeing and confronting always affirm and give thanks. Anyone who is willing to tell you the truth in love is a friend you need. Hold them tightly.
8. Follow-Up: Send an email or note. Keep the leader/friend/advisor in the loop.

Anything else you would add?

Tools For Missional Churches

Chris Marlow —  September 29, 2008 — 2 Comments

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Reaching Your Domain

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It’s All About People

Chris Marlow —  August 22, 2008 — 2 Comments

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