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When I was homeless

Chris Marlow —  January 18, 2009 — Leave a comment

I grew-up in a multiethnic neighborhood in Northern California. When I was sixteen I went to a church camp; at that camp I become a Christian. The day we arrived back from camp I walked home (I was living with my older brother) and saw some yellow “crime scene” tape on the front door. So I called my mom and she told me my brother was back in prison.

I was homeless, so I had to move back home, which meant a lot of chaos as my step-dad would abuse my mom then I would kick my step dad’s arse on a weekly basis. He was a pro boxer & truck-drive type, so I’m glad he was always drunk. I almost went to jail when I threw him through a window…He tried to press charges but the police officer was cool…But I digress!

I arrived home and I told my mom that I became a Christ-follower. My step-dad overheard and got pissed and kicked me out. He refused to let a Christian live in his home. This Jesus thing was not looking good at the moment.

So I was homeless again…

I called my friend and told him the news. This is the same friend who took me to this camp. His mom got on the phone and asked me if I wanted to live with them. They lived in a two bedroom townhouse and they were not wealthy, it was a sacrifice. Three of us roomed together. My only other option was some friends or my sisters, they were all drug dealers so in my amazing wisdom I accepted the invitation to live with my friends family!

That night I had a new home, a new “black/filipino” family, structure and love. For God’s sake they would always HUG ME-which drove me insane, I don’t like hugs PEOPLE!

So today I have two thoughts:

1. Normal people can do normal things and make a huge impact. If we are willing to sacrifice and serve we can change lives.

2. The fact that America has a black President is amazing and I’m really excited. All politics aside this is a good thing for our country, and our world. It’s hard to describe the meaning of this week. I look back to all the conversations I had with so many of my “black” friends. So I’m very excited for them to see and experience this moment and this week!

Weekend Recap

Chris Marlow —  January 11, 2009 — 1 Comment

The weekend is almost over…say what!

 
-Friday night we made our way to Stubbs to watch The Rocketboys. Great show and lot’s of fun with Wades and Mangums.
-Yesterday Necole and I decided to take a trip to Enchanted Rock. We drove two hours into the Texas Hill Country and then it took us about 40 minutes to hike up to the top of the rock. We had lot’s of fun, felt good to get away and hang with the family and be outdoors.
- After the hike we headed over to Fredericksburg, which is a quant little town in the Texas Hill Country. We ate at Fredericksburg Brewery. Great beer and good pizza, pretty cool little upscale country city with vineyards, b&b’s and lots of restaurants. 
- As we were heading home we wanted a coffee. However most places were already closed. We did manage to find a Christian Coffeeshop. (you knew it was Christian by the three crossed out front-sigh) But they did have a very cool house-turned-into-a-coffeeshop vibe. But truth-be-told…It was the worst latte I’ve had in years. 
-This morning we went to Austin Stone. Stew was speaking on mission and community. It’s good  to see a bunch of Vista peeps and the message was great. That church is truly doing some cool things.   
-After church we went to lunch at Zocalo with a bunch of people and then headed to Medici for a yummy latte.

Wish the weekends did not end so fast and I wish my house was not a disaster. But hey life is short and you gotta live it up…Now it’s time for dinner…girls in bed…and Jack Bauer.

Trying Not To Stress

Chris Marlow —  December 14, 2008 — 3 Comments

I think we all have seasons of life that are stressful. This morning I woke-up and realized I do not HAVE to be a church. Seems strange. Anyhow, Necole is working and Kenz is sick. So I’m at home watching some football and hanging with my girls. 

For whatever reason I got this overwhelming sense of stress. We have so many unknowns in our future. Usually I’m at peace with transitions. I’m used to them. I’ve lived in at least 50 homes growing up as a kid and Necole and I have moved a lot. 

We have lot’s of decisions to make and no matter what choice is made there is still immense stress. Yet in seasons like this it seems like we draw closer to God, seek Him more and learn how to “walk in the Spirit.” 

So as we consider moving back to Raleigh or staying here in Austin, launching a non-profit, starting a new business for Necole and all sorts of other things, we would appricaite your prayers.

Talk Is Cheap

Chris Marlow —  December 10, 2008 — 4 Comments

I became a Christ-follower when I was 16. I was tricked into going to some church camp by my best friend in High School. Needless to say he told me some girls from his church were also going.  I was thinking camping, beer, tents and other things that wild teenagers do or desire to do. (see picture and go ahead and laugh)

Laugh, do it!!!

Laugh, do it!!!

But God had other plans. I went to church for the first time in my life, (like 12 times that week-sigh) and I became a Christ-follower when the preacher called me out of the crowd and told me some stuff that nobody else in that room knew. That night I also was called into the ministry (which is confusing because we are all called into the ministry).

I saw the Spirit and the power of God and the love of Jesus the very first moment I became a Christian. It’s what I know, it’s who I am and it’s what I want to be-one who walks in the Spirit and see’s the Spirit using my life to demonstrate the Kingdom of God and His power.  I read this scripture this morning and I could not help but ask, “how much do I talk and I much do I act?” As I read 1st Corinthians I could not help but feel this desire to see God at work and the demonstration of the Spirit and His power.

With God’s help we could wipe-out extreme poverty in my lifetime. With God’s help we could plant Gospel-Centered Church that see city transformation. With God’s help we could live like Acts 2 and become Acts 29…30…etc.

Talk is useless and action is vital. People like me who are filled with vision and passion can still become “talkers” as opposed to actually living out the “way” of Jesus and serving my generation and seeing the Spirit’s power.

My prayer for the Simply Missional community is simple=lets act on what we believe.

No I’m not going to list a bunch of things I’m thankful for. But I had a wonderful and relaxing Thanksgiving. It’s always good to step-back and realize how good life is. Sometimes I wish it did not take a holiday for this to happen. But for some reason it does. I hope to walk in a more consistent attitude, we shall see.

Some further thoughts:

What I love about Thanksgiving is the simplicity. No fireworks, or dress-up or presents to purchase, no large crowds to deal with. Just family, food, football and faith. Seems right, more pure and enjoyable.

Hope you had a great day!!!

Learning To Trust

Chris Marlow —  November 4, 2008 — Leave a comment

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Christian Club

Chris Marlow —  May 10, 2008 — Leave a comment

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Re-focus

Chris Marlow —  April 30, 2008 — 4 Comments

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